tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-171679687973170928.post813578823661225641..comments2023-09-04T13:15:33.689+02:00Comments on Flâneur: 20(-Something) and Single: Young Men Navigating the Dangerous Waters of Modern DatingKate Flâneurhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11010471193952654701noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-171679687973170928.post-83584071790665002412014-07-01T18:42:05.784+02:002014-07-01T18:42:05.784+02:00Great post ,love!You have great blog:)Following yo...Great post ,love!You have great blog:)Following you now via GFC,hope you’ll do the same!<br />xoxo Antonella!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-171679687973170928.post-16380688580462428512014-06-23T10:21:38.672+02:002014-06-23T10:21:38.672+02:00Hahaha, I love "because to end up in a frien...Hahaha, I love "because to end up in a friendzone, you have to be perfect boyfriend material", got to show it to one of my guy friends who recently got out of a big relationship and ever since thinks that no girl is going to look at him as more as a friend! I really enjoyed the text you sent me, I could easily copy-paste it straight away into my "friendzoned" paragraph, but that would be plagiarism. :P<br /><br />As far as the classy one is concerned, they are quite rare, I've met one or two and most people thought that one of them was gay. Questions about his sexuality came up so often, it got really annoying. Has fine taste and an affiliation for theater and the arts become synonyms for homosexuality? :/<br /><br />Last night, after I published this post, several guy friends (as well as my boyfriend) messaged me full of curiosity, asking in which category they might fall into. Truth be told, every guy has some characteristics of all the categories above. No matter how much I love categorizing, no one can really be that one-sided!<br /><br />Looking forward to reading more of your insightful comments!<br />xoxo<br />F. Kate Flâneurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11010471193952654701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-171679687973170928.post-82584445330339152892014-06-23T01:28:11.068+02:002014-06-23T01:28:11.068+02:00Cool post. :)
As always, you did a good job in &qu...Cool post. :)<br />As always, you did a good job in "categorising" ;)<br />I have met and been friends with quite some guys that match your categories.<br />Honestly cannot stand the ones dating younger girls. Sure there is nothing wrong with an age difference if it just happens to be... but the ones dating younger girls because they are "less difficult" I just hate. I blame it on their lack of maturity. If you cannot handle a woman your age, you are probably not mature enough for a serious relationship anyway.<br />Also met (and have to say, for a long time been friends with) the Womanizer. I have to admit I like a guy with good confidence, who knows his effect on women and loves to compliment and flirt with any woman around. Having the Womanizer as a good friend (and always knowing that there will never be more, on both sides) can actually boost your own confidence from time to time. He knows when to give out a nice compliment ;)<br />As long as they do not take it to far and evolve into some kind of Casanova :P From this point on, they are just annoying.<br />Admittedly, I have never really met the classy one, or to be honest I think the ones I have met are all gay. Maybe that is their thing? :P<br />But most of all I have spent my time with the Friendzoned ones. And I have to say they are usually the ones deserving a serious relationship the most. Because to end up in a friendzone, you have to be perfect boyfriend material. They are the ones that set the standards, fall in love with their best friends and then watch them run into the arms of yet another jerk... <br />A long time ago (think it was still high school times) I read a great text, which I just link here. It is a tribute to the nice guys.<br />http://forums.school-survival.net/showthread.php?tid=12333<br /><br />Waiting for more great posts as usual ;)Minounoreply@blogger.com